Jan
20
The Sleepy Ghost .
Isn’t “love” suppose to be selfless and unconditional? It is when one start to have expectations on the returns on the “love” invested that makes “love” a commodity.
Isn’t “love” suppose to be selfless and unconditional? It is when one start to have expectations on the returns on the “love” invested that makes “love” a commodity.
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A very simple answer really—Relationship and love can be separated. Just because you love someone does not mean you can live with them.
Few people can stay in a destructive relationship even if they love the person.
Good point. Some people assume that because they love the other so much, the other person is somehow “supposed” to love them in return. They assume they are the hero/heroine of some fairy tale, that everything is supposed to work out because they are a “nice guy” or “good girl.” They assume that the ending they want is the “happy ending” they are entitled to.
The truth is that no one is *entitled* to a happy ending, and sometimes bad things happen to good people, and sometimes love alone isn’t enough to conquer every obstacle.
But the good news is that most people do get a happy ending – just not how or when they expected; good things also happen to good people; and love can prevail when nothing else can. =)
Because we are human beings, not God.
I think because everyone is different and life situations are different some people need more time to develop into the relationship, as the saying goes you want to be loved the way you love someone and that just wont happen at the same exact time…
It is because we are all self conscious in one way or another, and no one likes rejection.
We fear rejection. Love is sacrifice. It is something we feel deep inside us. If it is not reciprocated it is sad. Can we question it? We just going to spoil the beauty of love. Love should not be demanding.